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Hey there, my friend. Welcome to the winter method. You're in. Okay, if you're here, it's because you probably already just watched the winter method masterclass. You are in the winter method program, and you are ready to learn what you need to do to get him to pursue, be challenged, give, and win. So this is a quick welcome. I want to just give you a lay of the land, what to expect in the program, how to access it, what the ideal, ideal way of watching the program would be, and what you can expect. Okay. So the the first thing that you want to know is that the program is housed. If you're watching this, it's housed in school. School is a platform that we have a private community in, and you'll see that in the classroom if you're watching this. This is in the classroom. And we are in school, it's community. It's you'll see a calendar, you'll see the programs. What's in the classroom is the winner method, the winner method masterclass. There is also the texting toolbox and the available for love podcast, which is totally free. And you'll see the open heart blueprint in there too. There's something on the top left corner. What is that one? I can't think of which one it is, but I'll remember. So you're in here, and remember, the goal of this program of the winner method is to understand men, understand that they're totally different than you, that you've probably been applying a feminine method to masculine men. Um, and I'm sorry, a met a masculine method to trying to get a masculine man, and that does not work with them. Men do masculine men do not want masculine women. And it's not your fault, totally not your fault. We are the brain is very smart but kind of lazy. And when it learns something, it's like, let's just do it. It works. We like it when we're loved and and taken care of. So let's do that for the guys. But that attracts the wrong guys, right? You already know it attracts the lazies, the the liars, the little boys, and the I hate to say the word losers, but just guys that don't have their stuff together, right? We don't want those guys anymore. You need you're gonna understand all about men, how they work, how different they are, how you work, the biology of what it takes to for us for you to fall in love and how men fall in love, how different it is, and then what are the actions that you need to do to inspire those feelings in him? Okay, so there's four modules in this program. You're gonna see module one. There's three videos there's the biology of love, the something about men, and then something about women. I forget, I forget the the names of why I created this a while ago. So watch those three, and this is all it's video and it's information. Um, and mind you, the program also has an audio version. You can listen to the entire program in your earbuds. You don't need to watch me. Um, if you're on the go, if you're busy, if you work out, if you cook, you're cleaning. Listen, I'm a single mom, I do all the things. I love listening while I'm cooking, cleaning, working out, walking, doing all the things. So you'll see in here module one, module two, module three, module four, you'll see the audio version, you'll see the cheat sheets, you'll see the bonus, and you'll see that's it. Oh, and the I think the audio version, yeah. So that's what's in here. Go module by module. Skip around if you want, but I would really recommend that you go to module one. And because module one's gonna teach you how men work, you're gonna see the difference how women work, and you're gonna see the biology of love how um how we each fall in love, but we each fall in love really differently. Okay. And so I just realized my light is in the wrong place, but it doesn't matter, it's okay. We're we're we're we're we're we're we're going with it. So um, and what I want you to what I want you to know is that um module one is is a lot of information, and one really thing I one really big thing I want you to to to see. I reference the feminine attraction system. I constantly say, oh, feminine attraction, this is the feminine attraction system. That was the name of it before. Still a great name. I decided to to change it. Um and I sometimes consider going back to that name, but it doesn't matter. So um I referenced the feminine attraction system. You're in the right place. You're in the winner method program. So that was just the old name. So if you ever you hear me, I'm gonna reference it a lot. Don't worry about it. Then you'll hear me say, if you want to join the community, if you want to join the community to get more access, if you have questions, you're already in the winner method program community. You can ask me questions here. I'm not in here every single day because um you paid for the program. You didn't necessarily pay for me being there all the time, but I do pop in a lot. And if I see your questions, I will answer them. So write on right in the community, write stuff in there, okay? Um, and ask me questions. You'll see that I post in there. I'm always offering. If I if I update the program, it's always in there, okay? So um one of the ways that I recommend to uh consume this program, the easiest, easiest way because the program is in school, I recommend downloading the school app. The school app is whether you're an Android or iPhone, it's in it's in the store or the iPhone app store. Um download school, you'll sign in, and then you'll see this, you'll see um the winner method program group. So when you're in there, you'll be able to just click in there, go to the classroom, and consume it. It's really easy. The other thing that I do is I put the program on my home screen and my phone because when I was when when I buy programs, I like to, you know, like be listening to them. And when I think of it, I'm like, oh, I want to listen to it. Just easy access, right? It's just right there on my home screen. So if you're if you're into learning all this, put it on the home screen. You'll notice you're I'm teaching you how to get a guy, right? How to get him to it, it's all about inspiring his masculine instinct by getting, and what does that mean? Okay, inspire his masculine instinct. You see that I talked about it in the winter method. Men fall in love by effort, they don't fall in love by be being by coddled and being loved or whatever. They actually end up resenting you, right? Because men are providers, they're protectors, they're natural hunters, they go after what they want, they're they're procreators. So a man, for him to truly bond with you, he has to give, he has to be challenged, he has to invest his time, his effort, his energy, his money, his mindset, his plans, all these things, and he has to feel like he's winning with you. Okay. These are all different things, and and he has to pursue you. Probably one of the most important parts. Um, and if you're having a problem with the first one, you'll see what I'm talking, you'll see what what I share in in the in the program. But the point of this program is for you to learn why men need to pursue, why men need to be challenged, why men need to give, why men need to win. When you understand the psychology of men and how different he is from you, you will under you will, it'll be easier for you to do it. Okay. If you just think, oh, I'm just gonna make him feel like a winner, you're a part of you will almost resent it. You're like, I'm the prize. Why am I gonna make him win? Da-da-da-da-da. It's it's not like that. When you understand the why, the how is easy. And then the how, I give you guys tons of examples of how to inspire his masculine instinct. What does that mean? We need to get him out of his head and into his heart. When you when you are in your head and you're in survival mode and you're defensive or you're guarded or you're avoiding or you're too needy, you are in your head. You're thinking of trying to get him to love you. You get pushy, right? You do all the things that actually push him away. So the goal of this is to get him in his heart. You get him in his heart with one, with all the four things pursuing, challenge, giving, and winning. When he does those, he he opens his heart. Why does he open his heart? You'll learn a little bit more about it in the program. But the point of it is, is when a man opens his heart, that is a soul. I want you to understand that when a man feels like he's he has a purpose, when he feels like he's strong, when he feels like he's needed, when he feels like he's doing things for you, when he feels like um he won you, when he feels like he had to overcome hard things, it doesn't make sense to you because you're you're a beautiful woman and you're like, I don't want to do that stuff, right? It makes sense to men. And men don't consciously know this. No man walks around and says, I want a woman to challenge me and to make me invest my time and effort so that I can fall in love with her. Nope. It is subconscious my um activation, and it's because it at his at his heart, at his soul, his identity is um is masculine. It's a man. And whenever he does things that make him feel like a man, strong, protector, provider, procreator, it he's like, this is where I need to be. People, people innately feel like, this is me, this is who I am. It's just it's just this weird. Um, the same way when we're taken care of and we feel loved and supported, we feel soft and safe. It's because we feel feminine, right? We feel like a female, we feel loved, we feel like a beautiful, fragile little flower, and we feel loved and taken care of. That's why we like that. Men don't like to feel like that. They feel like broken little boys. Okay. So the goal of this is when you're doing things that inspire that that that will activate him to say, I need to chase, I need to give, I need to, it will just, it will inspire his action. Your behavior will automatically, if he's masculine and he cares about you, he will do these things for you. And when he does these things for you, he falls in love. It that's just the way the that's just the way the mind works, okay? So you want to go module by module. There's two video, two to three videos in each module. Very easy to consume. Listen to these over and over because I what I want you to notice is that when you understand the psychology of why a man needs to pursue, why a man needs to be challenged, why he needs to give, and why he needs to win. And then what is it, the things that you do in order to get him to do that? And when he does that, he opens his heart and feels like a man, because he feels like a man with you. He feels trusted and respected by you, and he falls in love with you because men stay where they feel like men. You got him. He will see you as this is the place where I feel most like a man, and men stay in places where they feel like men. Okay. That's just how it works. We feel like we go to places where we feel taken care of and we feel successful, we feel loved and beautiful. Same thing for them, right? So um it's very easy. Go through the modules, go the texting toolbox is really fun because it gives you literally scripts that you can just cut and paste and send to your man or just say it to him. Um, and it inspires, you'll see that it don't it inspires his pursuit, it inspires his curiosity, his anticipation, his the polarity. Those are the main emotions you're gonna be focused on creating. And um, and the emotional connection stage, the the challenge, the giving and the him being challenged and him giving, that ladies, is where he opens his heart the most and that's where he falls in love. Where he bonds, that's where he commits when he went, feels like a winner. So all of these are very purposeful. They're they're the three stages of physical attraction, emotional connection, and bonding. There is a reason to all of it. It's simple, it's small, it's concrete, it's there to inform you about men. And the biggest thing that I want you to see is when you know how men work, they feel safer to you. When they're not in this enigma and they're like, you're like, oh, guys are guys hurt me, guys are scary. No, no, no, no. Guys are lovey, lovey dovey. Guys love to open their hearts, guys want emotions, guys want to fall in love, guys love women, guys love to take care of you. They don't think this consciously, but they need it psychologically and subconsciously because it makes them feel like men. A lot of guys have never had a woman activate this in them, and that's why they don't even know that they want it. But when you create opportunities for him to do that, when he does them, he's gonna be like, She's so different. She actually brings out the best in me, the man in me. I want her. Men want women that bring out the best, and the best is their masculine side, and their masculine side is providing, protecting, procreating. Yeah? Does that make sense? Go through it. It's simple, it's short and sweet. You can listen to the audio version, you can get the cheat sheets. There's a cheat sheet for each module, each video. That way you have the basic points. And if you have any questions, you can write comments or any questions inside the community. Short and sweet and simple. And um, yeah, that's it. If you have again, if you have questions and there's ways that you think that that I can make it better, if there's something you feel like, oh man, if Annabelle only did this, it would be perfect. Send me a message on Instagram, send me a DM, because that's probably where um, or or on school, you could DM me in school, um, here where the platform, where the video, I'm sorry, where the program is, um, or send me a DM on Instagram so that um I would love to hear your ideas or your questions or what you think you need and what would make the program a little bit better. Everything's in there, you'll see a resources page where all the um all the cheat sheets live. And um, yeah, everything's in here, the audio version, and you get this for life. And whenever I make any updates, which I will make updates, right now I'm making this in August 2025. So if if it looks different, whatever, it doesn't matter if I upgrade it, if I make it better, you have forever access to this, okay? If you have more questions and you need more help, if you're like, I want more from Annabelle, and oh um, you can um join Segura, which is my group coaching program. So, my group coaching program, I'll put some links down there so you can just get more information. But here's when when you'll know that you need more help. If it feels really hard for you to create the five sexy spaces, for you to have that feminine standard staircase, for you to give him wins, for you to receive, you know that your heart is guarded, your heart isn't open. You should be able to receive and do all these things. But what they require you to do is create space, it's create slow, it's let him lead, it's follow. And these are hard to do when you have a lot of masculine energy. A lot of masculine energy is being in your head. Being in your head um is also doing a lot. Doing a lot is usually survival instinct for women. So if you are in survival and you're used to always overperforming and it feels really hard to not do that, we it's because you have some deeper subconscious beliefs that it's necessary that you always do, and you don't want to sabotage it because you will. If if it's if if you have deep beliefs that it's not safe to, if you feel really anxious when you have to separate, if you feel really anxious when you have to create space, if you feel really anxious when you need him to be challenged, if it feels really hard for you to um give him opportunities to help you and make give him wins, though those that is signs that your heart is guarded, it's closed. You have subconscious fears of letting go, of trusting, of receiving. And that's where you know you probably need a little bit more help. You can get the open heart blueprint, which is all about opening your heart, and or if you and that's a program that's just um um like this, it's a digital program, um, and you can do it all on your own. Or and and if you want more support, you can join Segura. And that's a weekly group coaching program. There's no um right now, as of right now, it's month to month. You can leave anytime, you can join anytime. We have four coaching calls a week. You can find out about that here um down below. I'm not pitching you that. This program is something that literally God told me to share it with you guys. Um, it was something that when I learned it all, brought me so much peace, helped me understand men. They didn't, I didn't feel like I had to protect myself around them, and I want that to be the case for you because when you're soft and you're in your feminine and you're not in protecting, you're more open. That's when a man feels really secure around you and he'll choose you because he wants to feel strong and secure around you. He doesn't want a woman where there's war, where he's fighting, where you're a competitor, not a companion. Okay. So um, if you're here and you haven't watched the Winter Method Masterclass and you want to, get you can watch it in the classroom, okay? It's in there. Um, please, again, let me know if you have any questions. Happy watching. I'll see you inside.